What Is Forbidden?

In preparation for a Zoom session on Dangerous Questions, Josie Gibson from The Catalyst Network asked me to write up the most dangerous question. She asked me to send my question to her husband, who put it in a black-swan envelope that was only opened during the live session. Check out the reactions at the end at 43:27 > I love the silences and the giggles of unease.

I am not looking for your answer to this question (you always can share if you feel ok with that), but I would like to invite you to use this question to look at what in your life was/is forbidden and what untapped potential you left/leave on the table.

Have a great day!

Petervan’s Delicacies – 27 June 2020

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As usual, an incoherent, irregular, unpredictable collection of interesting sparks. I am surprised there is so much video in this edition. I also found it difficult to select the five very best of this edition. Handpicked, no robots. Minimalism in curation. Enjoy!

Self-promo heads-up: Watch this and other spaces on July 1st, 2020. I will have something new to share.

 

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Pause with Josie – Episode 4

This is episode-4 of the calm conversation with Josie Gibson from The Catalyst Network, inspired by Robert Poynton’s book “Pause – You are not a To-Do list“. The approach is simple: we both read chapter-4 of the book and highlight three sentences, and mark the words that resonate most. These sentences and words are the triggers for a very slow-paced conversation on whatever comes our way.  No tricks, no gimmicks, just a gentle and calm wandering and meandering of minds.

https://soundcloud.com/peter-vander-auwera/josie-petervan-poynton-chapter4

Chapter-4 is about Design (of Pause)

Here are Josie’s three sentences:

Poynton’s colleague, Tracey Camilleri: ‘In such a week, “You are able to think long thoughts“‘

Defending the boundaries of empty space is important and it takes courage.

You could work with the seasons… The time for for tilling, sowing and harvesting feel very different. They have a different energy. Use that.

And here are my three sentences:

We think with our hands and our hearts, we think by moving, we think by making

Time is different here: baggy, generous: ambling, then dashing at the pace of light and landscape

If you tightly define what you want, and succeed, all you get is exactly what you expected. You are limited by your own goal.

We covered a wide range of topics from space & time, poetry and poetics, mental ecology, flaneurs, challenge our assumptions about others’ assumptions, having an opinion, be comfortable to be uncomfortable, and teasing out.

Some useful links mentioned in the conversation:

Episode-1 is here. Episode-2 is here. Episode-3 is here.

These are very calm conversations; so best is to take a pause, install yourself in a quiet corner, and enjoy!

Peter & Josie

Petervan’s Delicacies – 13 June 2020

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An irregular, unpredictable, incoherent, unfocused set of mind-sparks that got me thinking. Handpicked, no robots. Minimalism in curation. Enjoy!

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